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When you say that you don't know who you are, what do you really mean by that ?
I am 22 and most of my life, I had a clear idea of what I wanted to (will) become in the future, from 10 to 18 approximately. Then, during last year of high school, I changed my goal and felt lost. Though, your ...

I already posted my best suggestions. One thing to add is that you sound depressed and bored. When a person is depressed they can not function right and have no motivation as if they are bored and have no interest in anything. I don't even want to think about my childhood-I was abused and beat up ...

Re-reading my post and all the replies on the day in which INTJ University returned and sent me an email trying to convince me to return was interesting... The core problem I exposed here is still there. And I hope that I can answer the last replies soon...

Evidence wrote: May 21st, 2019, 8:31 am Hello lonewolf,

Just wondering if anything has changed these last few months?

Are you still there?

Things just remain the same or worse...

Evidence wrote: May 21st, 2019, 8:31 am Hello lonewolf,

Just wondering if anything has changed these last few months?

No, things are becoming worse and worse...
My life is okay, but I'm lost as always. Really don't know who I am, what I want, what to do, no places to go, etc...
Thank you for the answer.

Hello everyone,
I'm new here.... just wondering if anyone else out there finds themselves a social chameleon - taking on the characteristics of the person you are interacting with ?

How do you know who you really are?


This is the textbook description of me and no, I don't know who I really ...

My situation is mainly 2.1 (no ideas at all) and 3 (nothing seems valuable at all). I've been reading for years, trying to find something, but nothing came yet. Any suggestions on how to deal with that would be welcome.


That's a good thing. The solution for 2.1 is pretty straight forward ...

The thing I did to get out of a similar situation was to actually go do something, anything that piqued my interest. I realized you can't stay in the Ni dreamland forever, a healthy development of Te is needed. So I started reading and executing strategies and that helped me a lot. I would ...

I want to introduce myself to the forum. I'm 27 years old, from Brazil, medicine student. I have a good and reasonable life which I'm thankful for, but I feel always disheartened and unmotivated due to not knowing who I am, what I want, what to do and where to go. I'm lost. I know this isn't a ...